NEW podcast: The Chatty Café Scheme

Loneliness is a problem facing many people around the world. Particularly in cities and urban contexts, it’s so easy to be surrounded by people and yet feel unconnected and peripheral.

This month on the Village In The City podcast our guest is Jenny Bimpson, one of the key organisers behind the Chatty Cafe Scheme. It’s so simple – cafe and pub owners are invited to designate a ‘Chatter & Natter’ table where folk are invited to sit if they want to talk. From small beginnings in the UK the scheme has gone international! It is also running online chatty tables during the pandemic.

We talk to Jenny about how it all started, their experience of getting people engaged, both as hosts and as natterers, and how it can help in the development of micro-local community and connection. Our members also contribute their own experiences of different ways to encourage people to talk to each other from around the world.

Get the Village In The City podcast wherever you normally find podcasts (Apple, Google etc), or see the full series online at https://shows.acast.com/village-in-the-city.

How does Village In The City work?

Rudi, a new Village In The City member from London, messaged me with a question.

Hi Mark, how does Village In The City work?

A great question, and one that maybe we are not always clear about.  So here it is.

Village In The City is here to help YOU build micro-local community where YOU live.

We think that thriving, connected and mutually created communities are the answers to many questions and problems in the modern world. Safety, health, well-being, longevity, child-raising and Care are all intimately connected with local community (see the references on the front page of our website).

We think that many many people (including you) already have what it takes to help start and grow your neighbourhood community.  You already have Skills, connections, abilities, Gifts, passions that will help you.

Here’s the thing. We can’t do it for you.  We can’t come to your area and help you directly on the streets, in the parks and outside the shops.  However, we CAN and do want to help and support you. Whether you are just starting out or are already part of a neighbourhood community, we can help.

How we can help

The no-nonsense six part framework for a thriving community in our Manifesto is an excellent place to start. What’s already there? What are the next priorities?  How to take small steps?

Our free Village Builder Handbook gives you lots of specific ways to develop these six elements in your own neighbourhood. Download it now.

Join our Mighty Networks-driven Village In The City online community. This is free. Here you will get first access to calls, resources, connections, questions and the chance to join all kinds of discussions and events.

On the community you will find our free self-paced one hour introduction to Village In The City. This is a great way to get started, discover the six elements and begin to connect them with your own place.

Connect with other Village Builders around the world on our free live calls. At the moment these are monthly.  Access them through the online community.

You can use the community at any time of the day or night! We want to hear about you, your neighbourhood, your hopes for the future, your plans, your successes, your failures, your challenges and how you and your fellow citizens are coming together to help create your neighbourhood community. You will find experts and willing helpers from all over the world to share their ideas, sympathise with your struggles and encourage you to keep going. And you can hear about my own efforts in Edinburgh’s West End in our ‘Diary of a Village Builder’ series.

We also publish blogs, videos, a podcast series, share the latest ideas and help connect with other community movements around the world.

When you are ready to make a small public sign of your participation, you can put your village On The Map.  There’s a short google form to do that here. And you can see all the other Villages In The City around the world (on four continents so far!).

So… please get involved and join our wonderful and generous community of Village Builders. See you soon!

 

 

Is the tide with you or against you? Picking your time in Asset Based Community Development

Ask any sailor and they’ll tell you that the state of the tide is very important.  Pick the right moment to set out, and the tide will help you along the way. Pick the wrong moment, and everything gets much harder.  This is not a matter of setting out or not, it’s just that it’s much easier at certain times than others.

I think that the same applies to our work as micro-local community builders with Village In The City.  It’s not just a matter of having good ideas and the Skills to connect with people and make things happen. There are clearly times which are more (or less) opportune to get something going.

We discussed this at the February 2022 Village Builders call on Village In The City.  People from Austria, Bulgaria, Portugal and the UK came together online for our monthly learn, share and support session.  This topic was on the agenda (which we put together at the start of the call so everyone has the opportunity to bring a topic), and it led to a lively discussion.  Everyone thought that timing was a factor, and we shared things which might be signs that the tide is favourable or not for community building work.

Times in the year

The seasons of the year bring natural opportunities.  Here in Scotland, it’s no use trying to get people’s attention around Christmas with something new – they are all thoroughly taken up with family and other events.  (Of course, you can use Christmas time as a good reason to have a community event/get-together – but you have to organise it well in advance!) Where I am in  Edinburgh, August brings the Edinburgh Festival, the world’s biggest arts festival.  Our neighbours are either spoilt for choice about things to do, or have left town for the month to avoid the rush. Not a great time to be proposing new initiatives.

Academic timetables

One participant was a TEDx organiser who said that the academic year had a similar pull/push factor.  A lot of his volunteers were students, and so doing things within term time (and avoiding exam periods) was important.

National days and festivals

This is another factor which can work in both directions. National days and other holidays can be a good reason to get together – or they can take up peoples’ attention with other things.  Again, probably best to get things moving well before hand.

Crises and emergencies

We have all just seen how the COVID pandemic has brought about changes in the ways we interact in our neighbourhoods.  There can be other emergencies too – a flood, loss of electric power, catastrophic storm damage – any of which can be a good spark for community action.  Rallying round our neighbours in a crisis is an excellent way to make progress, and it needs to happen quickly. Or maybe if there’s an emergency somewhere else, you can rally your community to go and support (like this Sikh community from the Midlands went to the South West of England to help following huge floods in 2014).

Generational factors

Different age groups can be engaged and energised at different times.  School students may be more open to things when they are on holiday.  New parents can be in need of support and connection when their babies are on the way.  Older people may want to come together to remember events from the past.  And of course there can be cross-overs between these things (like the partnerships between Care homes and nursery schools) which seem to benefit everyone.

One of our members related this idea of timing to farming. “There are times to plant, and times to let the land lie fallow.” Another related it to the 16th century Protestant reformer Martin Luther, who said “where your attention is, there is your strength”.

What do you see as good (or bad) signs that the time is right to get new things going in your community?  Please comment below!

Village In The City offers a free online community on the Mighty Networks platform, open to all who or engaged or interested to create better micro-local community in your own area. It’s free, we hold events and calls, there are short courses, and it’s a great way to be part of a bigger group of skilled and enthusiastic Village-Builders all over the world. Please join us now.

The Place of Kindness – three keys to building stronger neighbourhoods

I am Chair of Sunday Assembly Edinburgh, a chapter of the global Sunday Assembly movement brings the benefits of church-like gatherings (singing together, hearing talks and readings, reflecting on moral questions. meeting people and eating cake amongst others) to a non-religious congregation. Our assembly was on the theme of The Courage To Be Kind, and our speaker was the excellent Ben Thurman of Carnegie UK Trust, the Wellbeing charity.

Ben’s talk was based around the work Carnegie have been doing for some years now about what creates Wellbeing, and in particular how kindness between neighbours can be an important and also challenging part of helping people build and sustain strong local communities.  He pointed us to their report The Place Of Kindness: Combatting loneliness and building stronger communities (free download). Even though it dates from 2017, this report is full of well-argued ideas about both the strategies and the challenges of linking small acts of kindness into a wider neighbourhood context. There are three keys identified which can help to bridge this gap:

Welcoming places: Having places which are free to use for community members, building a spirit of warm hospitality, having places which are free from agenda and not linked to a particular cause, and noting that it’s people that make places.

Informal opportunities: Making kindness visible, giving permission (and encouragement) to act in kindness, creating opportunities for connection, and making an effort to connect and act in kindness. 

Values of kindness: Be kind to yourself (first), take responsibility, trust people, recognise and celebrate kindness, and notice and question values. 

Those of you who have taken a look at our Village In The City Manifesto will note some key connections – the importance of places (as well as people), the focus on hospitality, the importance of inviting and trusting people.

The report is particularly interesting in that it also identifies what gets in the way of kindness: personal risk (people don’t like to feel they are putting themselves at risk in engaging with others), regulation (institutions have rules to follow, which can easily get in the way of staff acting kindly), professionalism (which tends to place dispassionate expertise over compassionate engagement) and performance management (organisations tend to measure what’s easy to measure, not what really contributes their acting in kindness).

Overall this report offers challenges to us as neighbourhood community builders. It shows how well-meaning institutions can get in the way, and how we have to work actively and tirelessly to help people to get involved and connected – even if that means taking on a bit of risk ourselves.  If we won’t do that, then how can we ask others?

Please download and read the report. What are YOUR takeaway points, actions and reminders? Please do add them below!

NEW! A free online introduction course to Village In The City

I am very excited to share our latest development at Village In The City! We are launching this short self-paced online course to introduce you to why neighbourhood community building is a great thing to do and the different elements of a Village In The City.  For everyone who has joined our community with an interest in developing your neighbourhood, this is a great place to start.

The programme takes about an hour to do, and is split into five modules. You can complete those modules at any time at your convenience – all together, in short bursts or over a period. There are some videos to watch, some short readings, and some quick activities to connect the ideas with your own neighbourhood.

This one-hour online self-paced course will:

  • Introduce you to the Village In The City project
  • Get you thinking about the benefits of building micro-local community where you are
  • Show you the six key elements of a Village In The City, to help you see what might be already there in your community and what you can build on
  • Help you to identify your ‘patch’ – the neighbourhood where you can start to focus your attention
  • Introduce some of our free resources and help you choose what to do next

Best of all, the course is FREE to members of our community. You can access is right now in the Courses section of the site. If you are not yet a member, our Mighty Networks community is free to join and we’d love to have you with us.  You can join us by clicking here. The approval process is manual so there may be a short delay – please be patient.

 

NEW podcast with Cormac Russell – community development and rekindling democracy

Out today – a new podcast from Village In The City featuring Cormac Russell! 

Cormac Russell is a passionate advocate for bottom-up community development, carried out BY citizens for their own communities. He is a long-term expert in Asset Based Community Development (ABCD), and says that finding and building ‘what’s strong’ is vital in dealing with ‘what’s wrong’. Who gets to decide what the priorities are? What is the role of outside professionals and experts? And how can this make communities which are not only stronger but also more democratic and empowered?

We are thrilled that Cormac agreed to join us at Village In The City for a lively call. He is a genuine international star, and his new book Rekindling Democracy has been making waves around the world. This promises to be an exceptional call, with Cormac’s passion for asset-based action meeting Village In The City’s Mark McKergow’s three decades in Solution-Focused change and host leadership.

Cormac speaks about the importance of bottom-up community building, relationships with institutions and professionals, and answers questions from participants. The call was recorded in December 2020.

Diary of a Village Builder part 4 – building purpose in the community

This is the continuing story of my efforts to help build my own Village In The City, in the West End area of Edinburgh, Scotland’s capital.  You can catch up with parts one, two and three if you like.  We join the story towards the end of summer 2021.  You may recall in part 3 that we had our first community get-together at the new outdoor cafe outside St Mary’s Cathedral.  This was only ever going to be a summer venture, and we decided to host another get-together on the final day of operation for this year.  I contacted both the cafe people and the cathedral in advance. We were pleased to welcome Vice Provost Marian who had been instrumental in organising the cafe in the first place, along with Stathis and his brothers who had been actually running the place, organising Greek delights and delicious brownies with coffee and hot chocolate.  Around thirty Westenders came out on a sunny if windy day to get together, and  to give Marian, Stathis and co a big round fo applause for all their hard work.  I spent some time chatting to Provost John, who basically runs the cathedral, about using their hall for community events.  He was very keen to support us, so that’s something to follow up on.

As the autumn has set in we have moved attention to indoor events.  These have of course been impossible during the COVID period but know that  vaccination rates are high it seems like more of an active possibility.  Anna from the Green Room, one of our bars in William Street, organised a businesses get-together and networking event which was a great success. Around 20 people came along, from both customer-facing businesses like shops and Wellbeing studios and also more back-office businesses including accounts and consultants, all from a couple of hundred metres around.  Paul and I went along to wave the flag for our Facebook group, which is also very well supported by businesses.  Anna plans to host both business and residents get-togethers in the coming months which is excellent news!

Last weekend we made quite a good step forward with our first street clean-up sessions. Paul obtained graffiti cleaning kits, litter pickers and bin bag holders from the council, and we set to in two groups at opposite ends of the West End, with around half a dozen in each group. In a couple of hours we had litter-picked and graffiti cleaned along the whole of Atholl and Coates Crescents, which is a very public place with many bus stops, post boxes and telephone cabinets for local ‘artists’ to write on. We also, of course, enjoyed meeting our neighbours as part of the process (some for the first time), chatting about life in the West End and generally enjoying being out and about. Lots of passers-by gave us encouraging cheers too! All in all a very worthwhile morning.

I’ve been thinking about what has helped to make these events successful.  Here are a few tips:

  • Timing is important.  There are times when it feels right to do something, and times when it seems like a rush.  I generally favour waiting for the right moment – when people are keen, when the weather is good, when there seems to be a ‘following wind’ for what we’re doing.
  • Welcome the people who DO show up! It may be frustrating that there aren’t more of them, but you really can’t blame the ones who do appear for the others who don’t. Be very appreciative, interested in them, take the chance to ask questions, and generally enjoy being with them for an hour or two.
  • Make it social as well as ‘functional’. In all these events we made sure that there was a chance for a coffee and chat or a drink and a blether (as we say here in Scotland).
  • Having a small first event is probably a good starting point for a bigger next event.  After posting pictures of our cleaning on Facebook, quite a few people said they would come next time.  “Why didn’t you ****ing come this time?” is one not-very-useful response to that.  However, now they’ve seen that these things actually happen rather than just being a good idea, there is more momentum.  Our first coffee gathering had about a dozen, the second had over thirty. Good progress.

Join Village In The City to learn more about how to create and expand your own micro-local community!

 

NEW podcast episode: Engaging with churches

This podcast presents material from my talk with Rev Nick Bowry, Rector of St James The Less in Penicuik near Edinburgh in Scotland.

Churches have long held a role in building community – but what kind of role can they play in an inclusive and broadly secular world?

Village In The City is all about building micro-local communities to enhance the lives of everyone in the neighbourhood, which may include one or more churches. Village In The City values inclusivity – so how are we to think about, and work with, churches which may appear to be there mostly for their congregations and followers? Village In The City founder Mark McKergow is joined by Rev Nick Bowry, rector of St James the Less Episcopal Church in Penicuik and St Mungo West Linton near Edinburgh in Scotland. Nick has been a supporter of our project since its inception and is actively engaged in community building in the town of Penicuik.

We discussed how village-builders might engage with churches and ministers, what they are interested in, and how they might be invited to help in a more general effort at creating micro-local communities and connection. It can seem a little daunting, what with the robes, collars and so on.

Nick has an interest in asset-based community development and strength-based approaches to change, in social justice, peace and creation. He was ordained in 2016, and is a member of the Iona community.

Listen and download the podcast at https://shows.acast.com/village-in-the-city/episodes/episode-5-engaging-with-churches-with-rev-nick-bowry, or wherever you get your podcasts.

 

Our next Village-Builder course starts Tuesday 19 October 2021! Come and join in

Our second Village Builder training course starts on Tuesday 19th October 2021. The course is all about how to build and enhance your micro-local community – your street, your neighbourhood, your block or whatever you choose. Over six week we will be using the six key elements of a Village In The City to help you see your local place through new eyes, asses what’s already going and the possibilities which may be out there already, and get you started on engaging with your neighbours (to whatever extent you choose).

“The Village Builder course helped me connect my own local experience with ideas from all over the world.” Leah Davcheva, Dragalevtsi, Sofia, Bulgaria

We are hoping for an international group once again, with people from around the world joining together each week to learn, compare notes and support each other.  The sessions are on Tuesdays at 6pm-7.30pm UK time, and are recorded so you can catch up if you have to miss some or all of a session.  Each week there is a short ‘challenge’ or task for you to connect the learning with your own place. Complete all the challenges and you will get a Village Builder certificate from Village In The City.

“Being a part of this online community was a game changer for me. Mark brought a wealth of experience to the table, which he shared over the six weeks in a systematic and engaging way, bringing out the best in each of us no matter where we happened to be building community.” Lynn Darke, Edinburgh

The sessions are led by Village In The City founder Mark McKergow. Mark is an internationally renowned trainer, facilitator and host, and his work on ‘leading as a host’ and solution-focused practice are in use in organisations, hospitals, schools and public services around the world. This is a wonderful opportunity to join Mark and fellow community builders to explore how we can all make a difference at a micro-local level. Mark is a Village Builder as well, in the West End of Edinburgh in Scotland.

“This seems to me to be all about rediscovering our humanity. The opportunity to share ideas with others, within Mark’s practical framework, does just that.” Roger Duck

Booking is now open for the Autumn 2021 course.  There are tickets at full price (£69) for those who can afford it, a concessionary rate of £25 for those less able to pay, and even free tickets can be had for those wanting to join in. There is even a full no-quibble money-back guarantee. Please book as soon as you can – the course starts on Tuesday 19th October 2021 at 6pm UK time.

“A brilliant course… the perfect village builder’s toolkit – thank you!” Gemma Boyd, Hainault, UK

Book now – places are limited. See you on the course. There are more details on the booking page. Any queries please email Mark at mark@villageinthecity.net.

NEW video: Hospitable Communities with Nigel Gann

How welcoming are our communities – really? How can we make neighbourhoods welcome ready – whether that’s for people from the next neighbourhood or folk arriving from around the world? These are some of the questions addressed by Nigel Gann in our latest video call on Hospitable Communities.  Nigel leads the Lichfield chapter of the City of Sanctuary movement, and he is working with the citizens and local government of this (mostly) resolutely white place to build more of a welcome for newcomers.  With refugees arriving from Syria and Afghanistan as well everyday movements of people around the country, this is a challenge in which we can all play a part. Watch the video now.

You can also join our community where we’re discussing this topic (and others) in our online community and during our monthly Village-Builder calls. Open to all, free to join.

Diary of a Village Builder part 3 – Getting people together

As regular readers may know, as well as hosting and leading Village In The City I am also engaged in building my own neighbourhood community here in Edinburgh’s West End. As you can read in Part 1 and Part 2 of this occasional diary, we have had some good success in growing our online connection; our Facebook group has grown from 19 members to 1100 over the past year. thanks to leafleting, hard work in behind-the-scenes moderation and building a small team of Facebook admins who support each other.  However, due to the lockdown restrictions it hasn’t been possible to actually get people together face-to-face – until now.

Another difficulty in setting up a group gathering in the pandemic is the lack of public space and outdoor meeting places. In community building circles these are called ‘bumping places’ – spaces where people can not only meet and talk but also bump into one another in unplanned and spontaneous ways.  We have lots of lovely cafes here in the West End but they tend to be rather small and cosy, with very narrow pavements outside which limit outdoor possibilities.

Then, in mid-July 2021, arrived the Don’t Tell Mama coffee stall outside St Mary’s Cathedral, on a grassy area normally used mostly for dog-walking. It was the cathedral’s initiative, and the Greek owners of their coffee shop in Tollcross stepped forward. They clearly invested in the site, with a booth, wooden seating, flowers, umbrellas/sun shades and so on.  It’s a wonderful addition to our neighbourhood, where people can come, meet, chat, bump into one another, see each other, all in an outdoor safe setting.  And Stathis and his team serve up excellent coffee, spanakopita (savoury pastries) and brownies to Westenders, dog walkers, people have earnest chats and those just enjoying the Edinburgh summer.

Our team of Facebookers had a chat and decided to announce a Westenders Sunday Get-together, just to invite folks along to meet each other, buy a coffee if they wished and start to make face-to-face contact.  After a couple of gloomy Sundays when the weather didn’t play ball, we finally went for it on Sunday 22 August. About a dozen Westenders turned out, we all made badges with our names and streets, and chatted for about an hour and a half. A modest gathering for sure, but a start!  Those who came (who had lived in the West End for anything from 4 weeks to 15 years!) all enjoyed it, said how useful it was to have community connection online and also to have a chance to ‘meet the neighbours’.

The cafe is only open during the summer (understandably), and we are planning another get-together in September to take advantage of the facility.  It’s a real boon to the neighbourhood, offering a different way to meet and a different kind of space for us to enjoy our wonderful surroundings.  I hear that the cathedral are having problems with getting planning permission to do it again next year. I hope very much that we can rally around and help convince the council that it’s not just another cafe but a really vital addition to the area over the summer months.

 

 

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