This week we have a guest blog from Randy Bretz, one of our village-builders from the Rousseau neighbourhood of Lincoln, Nebraska, right in the centre of the USA. Randy started to connect with people in his street during the pandemic of 2020, and is always on the lookout for simple yet warm ways to help his neighbours connect.
At first, they fluttered in the wind by themselves, the two notes of gratitude. From a distance they almost looked like autumn leaves. Then, perhaps acting out of curiosity or even some sense of obligation, people began to jot their thoughts down on the tags provided and hang them on the tree. During the late summer of 2020, as we tired of the quarantine and began to venture from our homes, our neighborhood hosted a Gratitude Tree and it helped us all focus on what we were thankful for instead of being angry, afraid or annoyed by our fear of the COVID virus.
Our Gratitude Tree was near the intersection of two sidewalks and had limbs low enough that we could tie some twine so people could easily attach their tags. We grabbed a graphic from the Web and produced a yard sign which we put in front of the tree. And, on a nearby fence, we provided a plastic mailbox with more tags and markers. The lid of the mailbox had a brief note that said: “What are you thankful for? Inside you’ll find some tags and pens. Share what you’re thankful for and hang it on the tree.”
We ordered some waterproof tags and provided some Sharpie pens, put them in the mailbox, closed the lid and waited. For about a week, the two notes that I placed in the tree fluttered alone. But then a couple more were added, then a few more, and after about two weeks, we had nearly 50 notes. Some were simple comments like “My brother,” or “Great neighbors.” Others were a bit more involved such as “School and learning and food and trees and family, and I like cats,” or “The sun, trees and the breeze and a cozy house to snuggle down w/ my little bambinos and hot wife.” (Never did find out who wrote that, but we have a pretty good idea)
As more and more tags fluttered in the breeze, you could almost feel a general attitude improvement in the neighborhood. The gratitude shown provide a general positive mood as people would drive or walk by. We plan to do it again and encourage you to give it a try in your village. It’ simple, it’s easy and it’s uplifting. Put a Gratitude Tree in your neighborhood, watch the notes begin to appear, then pull them down, make a list of the notes and share them with your neighbors. You’ll be glad you did.
Randy Bretz, Rousseau Neighborhood, Lincoln, Nebraska, United States